Josiah a 27 years old married, living in Davao City
But before that his life he don’t have a many friends and he was not famous, wasn't anything no spark for a couple of years.
Their relationship started into a friendship until they become successfully. Just like the story of Jushua harris and shannon from the book of boys meets girls.
I think josh story is something like that; I like the story of josh really inspiring and awesome. Because they have the rules and regulation to follow during in their relationship and they obeyed the God’s command and when is the perfect time to become married.
From Friendship to Courtship
He doesn’t believe that the standard as to like when it is the signs or whatever, important is to trust and believe; but for him when what it boiled down to us, is to wait the right time and the Perfect will of God don't be hurry.
Two (2) years when he meets her he already had their own perspective of what God wanted it to be in terms of a person and then how a process of renewal is? He begins to reconstruct of what kind of personality want it to be.
Its very important that everybody knows the real understand this is the very critical point in his life it makes or breaks the risk of 40 yrs or 80 yrs ago were going to live may it build may it would or either build you up or been destroy, it depends on the choices, and you have to make a choice in a critical.
He started to pray that person and think about it and he had a specific own list typically the criteria of what kind of personality in terms of characteristic and attitude he wants it to be and when is the right time. He asks himself first that "am I ready to court her" and when he able to had a responsibility if he can support her. Before he started to court her, he asks one of his mentor kuya tom and also her mentor and other close friends if it is ok if he could court her. And both of them basically agreed and then he courts her before he asks him first because he wants to make it sure on what she likes beyond what he sees.
Immediately she came into his mind and started to cry he had a tears of joy and he had no idea, at that time Josiah ride a jeepney and he said "how would you know where and wondering" he ask God what is this? His thinking is related to Samuel story before him getting married. And he had a message for him that’s why he had the purpose that everything in life will happen.
From courtship to engagement
He thinks that two years and 3 months plan preparing to propose a marriage. His close friends are very supportive for him all the plans and proposal process and involve for the wedding. That time he prayed a lot before him getting married.
Engagement to marriage:
When he got married, Josiah feels the excitement to the wedding because a lot of people helping for their wedding their friends and close friends are helping to support their wedding. They plan for the venue, they set in everything.
"If anything is real, the heart will make it plain."
Two (2) years and three months planning to propose a marriage. Josh prayed for everything will happen before the wedding. Hopefully that everything is find and okey.
And he did it for the wedding really successful and now he's happy because of the Lord's blessing upon them.
